It's easy to jump to Chapman's "physical touch" when someone says the word "intimacy" but with eharmony's report, what we are left with is, in fact, two relationship aspects that go a lot deeper than anything carnal. Being "emotionally seen" (otherwise known as emotional safety or security) and "sharing new experiences" with your partner are the two new love languages, according to the dating site. 

Emotional safety is a weighted word and can be closely linked to Chapman's "words of affirmation." At its foundation, an emotionally secure bond is one in which both partners feel authentic and confident in their own skin. There's vulnerability, honesty, freedom, and kindness. Both individuals feel seen and heard. What you won't find in an emotionally secure union is criticism, judgment, and defensiveness. Much like with someone who values words of affirmation, what you would be doing for your partner who has this need, is lifting them up and making them feel safe. One way to arrive at emotional security is via open and honest communication. 

If you find yourself booking tickets for a cruise with your partner, it's very likely that your love language is shared experiences. Not entirely dissimilar to Chapman's "quality time," with this new love language, you have a desire to bond over an activity you both find meaning in (via Pure Wow). The difference lies in the fact that the experience is something intentional you seek out.