Nicholas Brendan flawlessly captured the emotions that come from being an average teenage boy surrounded by powerful women, and even though his character Xander Harris has been criticized in early seasons for "nice guy" sentiments about being "stuck in the friend zone," both Xander and Brendan were able to grow up right before the audience's eyes.

In a 2017 interview with Science Fiction, Brendan stated he knew "Buffy" was something special ever since the show's third episode. He even said, "Me, Aly, and Sarah all watched it and we're like 'Oh. Oh wow, this could be kinda good.'" After the series finale, Brendan continued acting with roles on shows like "Hollywood Heights," "Criminal Minds," and "Private Practice" (via IMDb). While his career was progressing, though, Brendan's personal life took a hit. He entered rehab for alcoholism in 2004 and again in 2015 for depression, alcoholism, and substance abuse (via Us Weekly). 

In 2017, Brendan was also accused of grabbing and "violently" pulling his girlfriend by the hair at a bar in Palm Springs. He eventually struck a plea deal in 2020 to serve three years probation, complete a 52-week domestic violence course, and perform 20 hours of community service (via Desert Sun).

If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction issues, help is available. Visit the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration website or contact SAMHSA's National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).

If you or someone you know is dealing with domestic abuse, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233. You can also find more information, resources, and support at their website.